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"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty."— Maya Angelou


How Ignorance Affects Us

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Once when I was in Standard One in 1994, I glanced at a picture of a coin that a classmate had drawn on paper. The picture was perfectly done and while I can't recall what I thought of it, I am sure I wondered how on earth someone could draw a coin that perfectly.

Later on, I learnt that drawing a coin is a simple process. One just puts it under a paper, then streaks and blacks out the paper, and bingo! The details of the coin are automatically reproduced on the paper. And the drawing process works only when the streaking and blacking out is done with a pencil, not with a biro.

Had I not learnt that simple process of drawing a coin, I would have wasted many hours trying to come up with a perfect picture of a coin with my inexperienced hands. That has made me realize how ignorance can cost us time and energy.

Recently, I had an experience with my laptop that taught me that ignorance does indeed cost us time and energy. Would you like to hear the whole story?

Well, last year when I bought a new laptop, I could turn its volume up and down by pressing F3 and F2 keys respectively. But after some time, those two keys stopped adjusting my laptop volume and started doing some other tasks I wasn't interested in.

Since I don't like exposing my ears to loud sounds when listening to music using earphones, I had to keep adjusting my laptop volume by clicking a sound icon on the taskbar which made a pop-up window appear on the screen. I would then use the mouse to adjust the laptop volume by dragging a slider on the pop-up window, a rather tedious process for me.

Not wanting to waste more time and energy on such a tedious process, I searched for a solution on the internet on how I could make my laptop F3 and F2 keys adjust its volume. One website recommended that I uninstall the keyboard driver and then restart my laptop. I did those two steps but they didn't work.

Still craving for a speedy way of adjusting my laptop volume, I visited another website to see if it had a different solution. The website was actually a forum where I found a post by a person who had a problem similar to mine. A participant in the forum advised the person to adjust her laptop volume by pressing the Fn key before pressing F3 and F2 keys.

On trying that method on my laptop, I was pleased to note that it worked. But I still found it tedious to keep pressing the Fn key. I wished I could adjust my laptop volume by just pressing F3 and F2 keys like I used to do before something strange happened to those two keys.

That dissatisfaction notwithstanding, I settled on pressing the Fn key every time I needed to adjust my laptop volume with F3 and F2 keys. The process was less hassle than the one that begins with clicking on a sound icon on the taskbar.

About two weeks ago as I was happily reflecting about something, I thought of using the Fn key to turn off a light on the 'Escape' key which had always been on when I was using my laptop. The thing worked.

Guess what! Moments later, I noted that I could turn my laptop volume up and down using F3 and F2 keys without pressing the Fn key. It turned out that the ability of F3 and F2 keys to adjust my laptop volume had been disabled when I unknowingly pressed Fn and 'Escape' keys simultaneously.

My ignorance about the use of the Fn key made me waste time and energy adjusting my laptop volume by a tedious process. Imagine I had to keep going through that tedious process because the songs on my laptop have varying sound levels.

Ignorance is not bliss. Not only does it cost us time and energy, it also makes us fritter away money and resources. Former Harvard president Derek Bok was on point when he quipped, "If you think education is expensive, try ignorance."

Let us therefore do all we can to reduce our ignorance by growing our wealth of knowledge. And how can we grow in knowledge? By reading good books, listening to edifying songs, watching educational programs, visiting interesting places and having stimulating conversations with people.

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Becoming a Man

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When I was in Naru-Moru Primary School in the mid '90s, I overheard some of my schoolmates say they wouldn't want to go to Starehe Boys' Centre because students there wore shorts. And Starehe, in those days, was one of the best high schools in Kenya.

Apparently, the schoolmates associated shorts with boys, and they believed that once they finished their primary school education and got circumcised, they would no longer be boys but men.

The view that circumcision marks a transition from boyhood to manhood is a long-held belief in many African communities. During traditional circumcision ceremonies, initiates who shrieked while going under the knife would be ridiculed as cowards attached to their mothers.

Once circumcised, initiates were expected to exhibit the qualities of a man: courage, initiative and responsibility. The Maasai community of Kenya took the issue a notch higher by expecting initiates to kill a lion with a spear as proof that they had become brave.

As for me, nothing changed in my life after I underwent the rite of circumcision in December 2001. I remained a mama's boy: timid, obedient to everyone and fearful of upsetting those in authority.

Even when I was at Starehe Boys' Centre where I had my high school and college education, I never acquired the courage expected of a man. (Yes, I attended Starehe where I wore shorts during my high school years.) And Starehe's main aim was to mold boys into men. We used to proudly sing:
Give honour again and again,
To Starehe where we became men.
In April 2007 after I left Starehe and joined a choir of All Saints' Cathedral in Nairobi, some choristers were quick to note how timid and confused I was. One chorister named Ruth Wangire, a lovely lady I fancied, sympathized with me and asked male members of the choir to mentor me.

Owing to my immaturity, I became emotionally attached to those choristers of All Saints' Cathedral. I would keep emailing them to inform them of how I was getting on. And whenever it reached Thursday evening when the choristers converged for singing practice, they would be uppermost in my thoughts.

Apart from obsessing about the affairs of the choristers, I would also worry about what other adults could be thinking about me. And every time a person rejected or criticized me, I'd feel torn apart. A real mama's boy I was.

My lack of emotional security made me envious of my peers who appeared comfortable in their own skins. There is, for instance, a chap called Willydennis Watieri Wanzetse who I got to know when I applied for a certain fellowship program in America. The chap didn't seem to care whether he was accepted to the fellowship or not, unlike me who was anxious about the outcome.

Over the past four years, I have matured a lot - socially, emotionally and intellectually - which leads me to believe that I have become a man. No longer do I obsess about the affairs of the choristers I became emotionally attached to. Neither do I worry about what other adults are thinking about me.

Becoming a man has been a wonderful liberating experience. But I am still working on my interpersonal skills so that I am kind, confident and self-assertive when talking to people. I want to treat other adults as my equals, regardless of their age or wealth.

As I aspire to fully become a man, my role model is the young Jewish rabbi, Jesus Christ. I just admire the way Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and men. His maturity made him courageous and convincing when He started ministering to people. Such is the sort of man I want to be.

Having said that, I implore all male teenagers out there to strive to be manly to avoid succumbing to the corrupting influence of peers. And part of becoming a man is attaining emotional independence from mothers and other adults. Be a man and you will command the respect of the world.

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Bible Quote

"Always be full of joy in the Lord; I say it again, rejoice! Let everyone see that you are unselfish and considerate in all you do... Don't worry about anything; instead pray about everything; tell God your needs and don't forget to thank Him for His answers. If you do this, you will experience God's peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand."

~Phillipians 4:4-7 (TLB)

About the Author

Name: Thuita J. Maina
Nationality: Kenyan
Lives in: Kiserian, Rift Valley, Kenya
Mission: To inspire the world to godly living, one person at a time.

Just For Laughs

There was this drunkard named Azoge who loved drinking at Josiah's Bar. On being told a certain Hon. Nanga was flying to America to be conferred a law degree so that he could be admitted to the bar, Azoge replied, "Why fly all the way to America to be admitted to the bar while you can get into Josiah's Bar any time?"



The 7 Deadly Sins

  1. Pride
  2. Envy
  3. Gluttony
  4. Lust
  5. Anger
  6. Greed
  7. Sloth

Author's Note

I am learning to treat life as a journey, not a destination. So I am trying to enjoy each day as I anticipate to fulfill my dreams especially meeting my soulmate and traveling abroad. Tomorrow may never be mine.

Fun Facts

  1. The fear of having no cell-phone service, running out of battery, or losing sight of your phone is called Nomophobia, reportedly affecting 66% of people.
  2. A single Google search needs more computing power than it took to send Apollo 11 to the moon. The Apollo computer was less equipped than a modern toaster.
  3. Besides being some of the biggest names in the tech industry, HP, Apple, Google and Microsoft share another commonality. They all started in garages.
~Extracted from Codingforums.com

Health Tip

So many of us take for granted the wonderful construction of the human body and the workings of its various parts. Some of us even expect it to function efficiently with less than the minimum care and attention. Learn the much you can about your body and how the care of it can help to give you that greatest blessing of all - good health.


Wonders of the Modern World

  1. The Simplon Tunnel
  2. The Sky-scrapers of New York
  3. The Boulder Dam of Colorado
  4. The Panama Canal
  5. The Golden Gate Bridge
  6. The Taj Mahal at Agra in India
  7. The North Sea Oil Drilling Rigs

Great Example for Politicians

"My life in politics was a joy. I loved campaigns and I loved governing. I always tried to keep things moving in the right direction, to give more people a chance to live their dreams, to lift people's spirits, and to bring them together. That's the way I kept score."

~Bill Clinton

Scientific Marvels

  1. Space travel
  2. Heart surgery
  3. Fibre-optics communication
  4. Concorde
  5. Computers & Radios
  6. Anesthetics
  7. The atom bomb

My Supreme Desire

Although I'd like to be rich and famous, my supreme desire is to be radiant: to radiate health, cheerfulness, calm courage and goodwill. I wish to live without hate, guilt, worry, jealousy, cynicism and envy. I wish to be honest, natural, confident, clean in mind and body - ready to say "I do not know" if it be so and to treat all men with kindness - to meet any loss, failure, criticism and rejection unabashed and unafraid.



Greatest American Presidents

  1. Abraham Lincoln
  2. George Washington
  3. Thomas Jefferson
  4. Franklin Roosevelt
  5. Theodore Roosevelt
  6. Woodrow Wilson
  7. Andrew Jackson

Making Peace With the Past

"Dwell not on your past. Use it to illustrate a point, then leave it behind. Nothing really matters except what you do now in this instant of time. From this moment onwards you can be an entirely different person, filled with love and understanding, ready with an outstretched hand, uplifted and positive in every thought and deed."

~Eileen Caddy

Toughest Colleges to Get Into

  1. MIT
  2. Princeton
  3. Harvard
  4. Yale
  5. Stanford
  6. Brown
  7. Columbia

Why You Should Trust God

"Men and women who turn their lives over to God will find out that He can make a lot more out of their lives than they can. He will deepen their joys, expand their vision, quicken their minds, strengthen their muscles, lift their spirits, multiply their blessings, increase their opportunities and pour out peace."

~Ezra Taft Benson

The 7 Greatest Scientists

  1. Albert Einstein
  2. Isaac Newton
  3. Galileo Galilei
  4. Nikola Tesla
  5. Aristotle
  6. Archimedes
  7. Charles Darwin

You Matter

"Always be yourself. Never try to hide who you are. The only shame is to have shame. Always stand up for what you believe in. Always question what other people tell you. Never regret the past; it's a waste of time. There's a reason for everything. Every mistake, every moment of weakness, every terrible thing that has happened to you, grow from it. The only way you can ever get the respect of others is when you show them that you respect yourself and most importantly, do your thing and never apologize for being you."

~Unknown

The Most Industrialized Nations

  1. United States
  2. Japan
  3. Germany
  4. France
  5. United Kingdom
  6. Italy
  7. Canada

Keys to Success

"...in his effort to withstand temptation, to economize, to exercise thrift, to disregard the superficial for the real - the shadow for the substance; to be great yet small, in his effort to be patient in the laying of a firm foundation; to so grow in skill and knowledge that he shall place his services in demand by reason of his intrinsic and superior worth. This is the key that unlocks every door of opportunity, and all others fail."

~Booker T. Washington

The 7 Social Sins

  1. Politics without principle
  2. Wealth without work
  3. Pleasure without conscience
  4. Knowledge without character
  5. Commerce without morality
  6. Worship without sacrifice
  7. Science without humanity

Cherish What You Love

"Cherish your visions, cherish your ideals, cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts - for out of them will grow all heavenly environment, of these if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built."~James Allen

The World's Largest Cities

  1. London in England
  2. New York in the United States
  3. Tokyo in Japan
  4. Berlin in Germany
  5. Chicago in the United States
  6. Shanghai in China
  7. Paris in France

Benefits of Optimism

"In terms of success, optimistic people out perform their pessimistic colleagues. Research shows that they are consistently promoted higher and make more money while working fewer hours than those who think pessimistically. Optimists also contribute more significantly to social progress. It is the optimists who start and run successful companies, who win elections and carry out reforms, and who make breakthroughs in the realms of science and technology."

~Pepe Minambo

The World's Greatest Lakes

  1. Caspian Sea in the Commonwealth of Independent States, C.I.S. (formerly U.S.S.R)
  2. Lake Superior in North America
  3. Victoria Nyanza in Central Africa
  4. Aral Sea in C.I.S.
  5. Lake Huron in North America
  6. Lake Michigan in North America

Demonstrating His Love

"Take your communication for instance - the way you address others. It ought to be with loving, gracious and edifying words. Never talk people down. Never use words that hurt and demean people. Communicate excellently with others without destroying their self-image or making them feel sorry for themselves. Talk to people in a way that they never forget the excellence of your words, the love and grace of Christ that you communicated. It's how God wants us to love."

~Dr. Chris Oyakhilome

World's Longest Rivers

  1. Missouri-Mississipi (U.S.)
  2. Amazon (Brazil)
  3. Nile (Egypt)
  4. Yangtse (China)
  5. Lena (Russia)
  6. Zaire (Central Africa)
  7. Niger (West Africa)