Positive Quote For Today

"The only way that we can live, is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change. The only way that we can change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out into the open. Do it. Throw yourself."— C. JoyBell C.



A Third Testimony

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Since I took up blogging as a career eight years ago, I have faced numerous problems along the way. Problems such as difficulty with linking my blog to social media platforms. And every time I have solved a problem, I have thought I am done with challenges only for another one to arise.

Just last month, Google Adsense - the company whose ads appear on this blog - instructed me to submit a copy of a document, such as my national identity card, which identified me as the rightful owner of my Adsense account, something I understand they tell all account holders to do once they earn a certain amount. I saw the instruction while checking how much I had earned from my Google ads.

At first, I thought the instruction was a simple process. So I hurriedly scanned my national ID with my father's printer and submitted it to my Google Adsense account. But alas! Google rejected the scanned ID because it was blurry.

Still thinking the process was simple, I photographed my ID with my smartphone camera and uploaded it. But Google also rejected it, saying it was blurry. That left me in a quandary. Should I apply for another ID which the government now issues in a modern format? I wondered.

On reflecting more, I contemplated uploading a copy of my American Embassy library card which expired in 2014. As I was searching for it in a small bag, I came across a photocopied national ID of mine which appeared clearer than the original. Thinking Google would be able to read it, I scanned and uploaded it, only for it to be rejected. Reason? It was also blurry.

While pondering on what to do next, I checked the email account I used to register my Google Adsense account. I hadn't signed into that email account for more than four months and when I did, I found about 20 unread emails, mostly from Google Adsense.

After I opened one email, I learnt that I had limited chances of submitting a copy of the required document which identified me as the rightful owner of my Adsense account. The email further said that submitting an expired document would lead to suspension of my Adsense account.

Wa! I couldn't help thanking God for having kept me from submitting my expired American Embassy library card. If that wasn't God guiding me, you tell me what it was.

Being the smart young man that I am, I added to my scanned ID a caption that clarified the details of the ID contents which Google had said were blurry. I thought Google employees would understand and accept my ID. And when I retired to bed after submitting the ID, I dreamt of receiving a "success" email from Google Adsense.

But oh my! Google still said my ID was blurry, even after I took great pains to clarify its contents in a caption. Then I learnt that I had one last chance to submit a copy of the required document.

Earning from Google Adsense has been one of my aims since I embraced blogging as a career. What I like about Google Adsense is that the company is international. It serves website visitors all over the world with ads relevant to their location.

The possibility of my Adsense account being suspended made me feel like quitting my career as a blogger. But then I remembered the hackneyed aphorism that says "winners never quit and quitters never win". I therefore began brainstorming on a solution to have my ID accepted by Google Adsense.

Try as I might, I couldn't come up with a solution. And Google Adsense has no customer care service I could approach for assistance. Not even a Twitter handle where I could air my predicament.

As I often do when confronted with a technical hitch, I kept trying things while asking God for guidance. I would have loved to tell you everything I did but since the secret of being a bore is to tell everything, let me spare you the details.

All I can say is that God eventually guided me to scanning my ID with my father's printer using a higher resolution. I submitted the scanned ID which was bigger and clearer than my previous copies. And wow! Google accepted it in the last chance I had to submit the ID. The acceptance elated me so much that I danced around my room and then knelt to utter a prayer of gratitude.

For guiding me through the ID-submission process that turned out to be complicated, God has encouraged me to entrust my problems to Him. From now henceforth, I will be worrying less and trusting Him more as I go about my daily life. Not an unwise attitude for you to have as well, my beloved reader!

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Adjusting to Life Without Mum

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This is my mother back in the early '90s when she was younger than I am now. She was posing for a photo with our family dog and her treasured dairy cows. Can you see the world-famous Ngong Hills in the background?


For the past six months or so, I have formed the habit of listening to one hymn over and over again after taking supper till I retire to bed. I pick the hymn to listen to depending on the mood I am in. Since Mum died three weeks ago, I have been listening to "What a Friend We Have in Jesus", a hymn I preserve for those moments I am feeling low.

Mum's death grieved me so much that I have overslept on some mornings and turned a bit indolent during the day - vices I had vowed to never go back to. But at least I am proud of myself for not over-eating or watching adult films on the internet as I grieved the loss of my mother.

Perhaps it is that unfamiliar feeling of grief that had made me desire to be the first one in my family to die. I just didn't want to be there when my loved ones are being buried. The day Mum passed away, I wished I had been killed in a road accident a few days before.

Given how I enjoy praying, reading, writing, singing, exercising, playing the piano and staying in touch with friends, I have an inkling I might live to be 96 and thus become the last in my present family to die. So I am bracing myself psychologically for many more burials of loved ones.

Going back to Mum's death, it really did sadden me. In the days that followed her demise, there was a flurry of activities at home. Tents were set up, meetings held and many cars driven to our homestead by friends and relatives who came to condole with us. And there were announcements on radio and newspapers about Mum's promotion to glory.

Those activities and announcements gave one the impression that Mum was a great lady. But you know what? Often when I was left alone with her here at home before her death, she appeared to me like an ordinary woman. If only I had appreciated her more! I am now in the phase of adjusting to life at home without her.

Sickly though Mum was in the last eleven years of her life, she had a profound influence on our home. She was always concerned about us. Sometimes when I was late in arriving home from my evening exercises, she would worriedly ask in Kikuyu, "Has Thuita come?" And when Dad was held up somewhere, she would keep on phoning him just to be assured he was safe and sound.

Being the lover of food that she was, Mum always ensured there was something in the house for us to feast on. She would instruct our farmhands to prepare porridge for us and remind them when to take maize to the posho mill so that we had maize-flour for cooking ugali, one of my favorite meals.

Mum also cared about our farm. On the onset of every rainy season, she would have our farmhands plant kales, beans, maize, spinach and pumpkins. And sometimes when my brothers paid us a visit, she would inquire from them if the farm looked well tended.

Not only did Mum care about our farm but also its workers. She used to remind Dad about the salaries of our farmhands at the beginning of every month. And she was keen to have the farmhands do the work they were paid for. Nothing used to bother her more than seeing our farmhands monkey around when they should have been working.

A shrewd judge of people, Mum could tell which farmhands were honest and which were light-fingered. She would caution us to be careful when dealing with the light-fingered farmhands. And whenever she disliked any of them, she would employ clever tactics to have them fired.

Early this month, Dad was not remembering he hadn't paid our current farmhand, a reliable and hard-working fellow named Allan who Mum liked. I am the one who reminded Dad about Allan's salary. We are truly feeling Mum's absence at home.

Previously, I had divided my life into two major times: the time when Mum used to run her shop and the time she stayed with me at home after she became ill. Needless to say, I have now begun another time of my life - a time without Mum and which might last for 60 years if I live to be 96.

I know it's going to be emotionally draining when memories of Mum and the times we shared together come flooding back in my mind. Even more depressing will be not seeing Mum witness me achieve my dreams. So as you whisper your own prayers, whisper a small one for me too.

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RECOMMENDATION: If you've enjoyed the above story on me adjusting to life without Mum, you might also enjoy another one on "Part 1: Appreciating Mothers" which I wrote in 2020 on Mother's Day. Just click on that link in blue to dive straight into the story.

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Bible Quote

"Always be full of joy in the Lord; I say it again, rejoice! Let everyone see that you are unselfish and considerate in all you do... Don't worry about anything; instead pray about everything; tell God your needs and don't forget to thank Him for His answers. If you do this, you will experience God's peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand."

~Phillipians 4:4-7 (TLB)

About the Author

Name: Thuita J. Maina
Nationality: Kenyan
Lives in: Kiserian, Rift Valley, Kenya
Mission: To inspire the world to godly living, one person at a time.


Just For Laughs

There was this drunkard named Azoge who loved drinking at Josiah\'s Bar. On being told a certain Hon. Nanga was flying to America to be conferred a law degree so that he could be admitted to the bar, Azoge replied, "Why fly all the way to America to be admitted to the bar while you can get into Josiah\'s Bar any time?"


The 7 Deadly Sins

  1. Pride
  2. Envy
  3. Gluttony
  4. Lust
  5. Anger
  6. Greed
  7. Sloth

Author's Note

I am learning to treat life as a journey, not a destination. So I am trying to enjoy each day as I anticipate to fulfill my dreams especially meeting my soulmate and traveling abroad. Tomorrow may never be mine.


Fun Facts

  1. The fear of having no cell-phone service, running out of battery, or losing sight of your phone is called Nomophobia, reportedly affecting 66% of people.
  2. A single Google search needs more computing power than it took to send Apollo 11 to the moon. The Apollo computer was less equipped than a modern toaster.
  3. Besides being some of the biggest names in the tech industry, HP, Apple, Google and Microsoft share another commonality. They all started in garages.
~Extracted from Codingforums.com

Health Tip

So many of us take for granted the wonderful construction of the human body and the workings of its various parts. Some of us even expect it to function efficiently with less than the minimum care and attention. Learn the much you can about your body and how the care of it can help to give you that greatest blessing of all - good health.


Wonders of the Modern World

  1. The Simplon Tunnel
  2. The Sky-scrapers of New York
  3. The Boulder Dam of Colorado
  4. The Panama Canal
  5. The Golden Gate Bridge
  6. The Taj Mahal at Agra in India
  7. The North Sea Oil Drilling Rigs

Great Example for Politicians

"My life in politics was a joy. I loved campaigns and I loved governing. I always tried to keep things moving in the right direction, to give more people a chance to live their dreams, to lift people's spirits, and to bring them together. That's the way I kept score."

~Bill Clinton

Scientific Marvels

  1. Space travel
  2. Heart surgery
  3. Fibre-optics communication
  4. Concorde
  5. Computers & Radios
  6. Anesthetics
  7. The atom bomb

My Supreme Desire

Although I'd like to be rich and famous, my supreme desire is to be radiant: to radiate health, cheerfulness, calm courage and goodwill. I wish to live without hate, guilt, worry, jealousy, cynicism and envy. I wish to be honest, natural, confident, clean in mind and body - ready to say "I do not know" if it be so and to treat all men with kindness - to meet any loss, failure, criticism and rejection unabashed and unafraid.


Greatest American Presidents

  1. Abraham Lincoln
  2. George Washington
  3. Thomas Jefferson
  4. Franklin Roosevelt
  5. Theodore Roosevelt
  6. Woodrow Wilson
  7. Andrew Jackson

Making Peace With the Past

"Dwell not on your past. Use it to illustrate a point, then leave it behind. Nothing really matters except what you do now in this instant of time. From this moment onwards you can be an entirely different person, filled with love and understanding, ready with an outstretched hand, uplifted and positive in every thought and deed."

~Eileen Caddy

Toughest Colleges to Get Into

  1. MIT
  2. Princeton
  3. Harvard
  4. Yale
  5. Stanford
  6. Brown
  7. Columbia

Why You Should Trust God

"Men and women who turn their lives over to God will find out that He can make a lot more out of their lives than they can. He will deepen their joys, expand their vision, quicken their minds, strengthen their muscles, lift their spirits, multiply their blessings, increase their opportunities and pour out peace."

~Ezra Taft Benson

The 7 Greatest Scientists

  1. Albert Einstein
  2. Isaac Newton
  3. Galileo Galilei
  4. Nikola Tesla
  5. Aristotle
  6. Archimedes
  7. Charles Darwin

You Matter

"Always be yourself. Never try to hide who you are. The only shame is to have shame. Always stand up for what you believe in. Always question what other people tell you. Never regret the past; it's a waste of time. There's a reason for everything. Every mistake, every moment of weakness, every terrible thing that has happened to you, grow from it. The only way you can ever get the respect of others is when you show them that you respect yourself and most importantly, do your thing and never apologize for being you."

~Unknown

The Most Industrialized Nations

  1. The United States
  2. Japan
  3. Germany
  4. France
  5. United Kingdom
  6. Italy
  7. Canada

Keys to Success

"...in his effort to withstand temptation, to economize, to exercise thrift, to disregard the superficial for the real - the shadow for the substance; to be great yet small, in his effort to be patient in the laying of a firm foundation; to so grow in skill and knowledge that he shall place his services in demand by reason of his intrinsic and superior worth. This is the key that unlocks every door of opportunity, and all others fail."

~Booker T. Washington

The 7 Social Sins

  1. Politics without principle
  2. Wealth without work
  3. Pleasure without conscience
  4. Knowledge without character
  5. Commerce without morality
  6. Worship without sacrifice
  7. Science without humanity

Cherish What You Love

"Cherish your visions, cherish your ideals, cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts - for out of them will grow all heavenly environment, of these if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built."

~James Allen

The World's Largest Cities

  1. London in England
  2. New York in the United States
  3. Tokyo in Japan
  4. Berlin in Germany
  5. Chicago in the United States
  6. Shanghai in China
  7. Paris in France

Benefits of Optimism

"In terms of success, optimistic people out perform their pessimistic colleagues. Research shows that they are consistently promoted higher and make more money while working fewer hours than those who think pessimistically. Optimists also contribute more significantly to social progress. It is the optimists who start and run successful companies, who win elections and carry out reforms, and who make breakthroughs in the realms of science and technology."

~Pepe Minambo

The World's Greatest Lakes

  1. Caspian Sea in the Commonwealth of Independent States, C.I.S. (formerly U.S.S.R)
  2. Lake Superior in North America
  3. Victoria Nyanza in Central Africa
  4. Aral Sea in C.I.S.
  5. Lake Huron in North America
  6. Lake Michigan in North America

Demonstrating His Love

"Take your communication for instance - the way you address others. It ought to be with loving, gracious and edifying words. Never talk people down. Never use words that hurt and demean people. Communicate excellently with others without destroying their self-image or making them feel sorry for themselves. Talk to people in a way that they never forget the excellence of your words, the love and grace of Christ that you communicated. It's how God wants us to love."

~Dr. Chris Oyakhilome

World's Longest Rivers

  1. Missouri-Mississipi (U.S.)
  2. Amazon (Brazil)
  3. Nile (Egypt)
  4. Yangtse (China)
  5. Lena (Russia)
  6. Zaire (Central Africa)
  7. Niger (West Africa)