The Never-Give-Up Attitude

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This is Bill Clinton, one of the lights of my life, with his wife, the one and only Hillary Rodham Clinton. Photo credit: Associated Press

Bill Clinton became the third youngest American president when he was elected to office in November 1992. He said in his memoir that one of the reasons he became president was because he never gave up when he got beat up.

Having read the memoir thrice, I have noted he had a never-give-up attitude. When he first ran for a political seat in 1974, he not only lost but also ran up debt. But that didn't dent his passion for politics, for he was elected Arkansas Governor five years later.

As governor, he did some things that led to his defeat in the next gubernatorial race, a loss he described as a near-death experience, but one that taught him valuable lessons. He was elected governor again and served in that position till he became president-elect.

But he faced challenges before becoming president. In 1988 for instance, critics lampooned him for giving a pathetic speech in that year's Democratic National Convention, an experience that made him sensitive to the feelings of people who find themselves in embarrassing situations.

Such are the kind of beatings Bill Clinton endured on his way to presidency. And he became a great president given that America prospered in his time. Obviously drawing from his illustrious political career, he advised people:
If you live long enough, you'll make mistakes. But if you learn from them, you'll be a better person. It's how you handle adversity, not how it affects you. The main thing is never quit, never quit, never quit.
That Bill Clinton succeeded due to his never-give-up attitude inspires me to keep carving out a nice little career for myself as a blogger. And I am proud of how far I have come. Trust me, the journey hasn't been easy.

Like Bill Clinton, I have faced criticism and rejection. Some have dismissed my blog stories as sketchy while others haven't liked what I share for reasons I can't tell. But I have kept on moving.

The good thing about never giving up is that we become better at what we are trying to achieve. It's like what Dale Carnegie said of writers who practiced their craft for several years, only to find themselves among the finest in the world one day.

As for me, my never-give-up attitude has made me a better blogger. I now enjoy sharing stories and songs daily, unlike before when it felt burdensome.

I urge you to also develop a never-give-up attitude, or stick-to-itiveness as some would call it. Keep pursuing that dream God put in your heart and He will honor you with every blessing in due season as He promises in Psalm 37:34.

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RECOMMENDATION: If you've enjoyed the above story on the never-give-up attitude, you might also enjoy another one on "Keeping Hope Alive" which I wrote seven years ago.
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Learning to Like Ourselves

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When I was a first-year engineering student at JKUAT in 2007, I once went to the library, dipped into a communication textbook and came across a speech about learning to like ourselves. And wow! The speech was so inspiring and enlightening.

According to the author of that speech, most of us don't like ourselves. Not that we hate ourselves. We just doubt whether we are as good as some of our peers.

I was one of those people who doubt their value. Many times, I felt inferior to some people. What's worse, I believed I deserved to be criticized for who I was.

But recently, I have been realizing what an amazing person I have been. To begin with, I could write, give a speech and play the piano: talents that could make me somebody in the world.

Then, I have always been kind and forgiving - qualities from which true self-worth stems.

Oh, I won't lie! I had weaknesses like timidity and confusion that I struggled with. The weaknesses, I now realize, kept me from liking myself the way I should.

Thank goodness I have started liking myself as I am. I have also started believing I deserve to be treated with respect. Different and imperfect though I am, I am still valuable.

Having been around long enough, I agree with the author of that speech I came across in a communication textbook when he warned us about "the acid cruelty of the world" - the unkindness of others.

As long as we live, there will always be critics pointing out where we fall short. Well, some of the criticism we receive is right and essential for our growth. Much of it, though, is due to "the pecking order of society". Others want to escape their own insecurities by trying to appear better than us.

So as to continue liking myself in the face of such undeserved criticism, I have resolved to remind myself that the problem will be with the critic, not with me. Not an unwise thing for you to do as well, my beloved reader!

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RECOMMENDATION: If you've enjoyed the above story on learning to like ourselves, you might also enjoy another one on "How to Build Self-esteem" which I wrote seven years ago.
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Bible Quote

"Always be full of joy in the Lord; I say it again, rejoice! Let everyone see that you are unselfish and considerate in all you do... Don't worry about anything; instead pray about everything; tell God your needs and don't forget to thank Him for His answers. If you do this, you will experience God's peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand."

~Phillipians 4:4-7 (TLB)

About the Author

Name: Thuita J. Maina
Marital status: Single
Lives in: Kiserian, Rift Valley, Kenya
Mission: To inspire the world to godly living, one person at a time.

Just for Laughs

There was this drunkard named Azoge who loved drinking at Josiah's Bar. On being told a certain Hon. Nanga was flying to America to be conferred a law degree so that he could be admitted to the bar, Azoge replied, "Why fly all the way to America to be admitted to the bar while you can get into Josiah's Bar any time?"



The 7 Deadly Sins

  1. Pride
  2. Envy
  3. Gluttony
  4. Lust
  5. Anger
  6. Greed
  7. Sloth

Author's Note

I am learning to treat life as a journey, not a destination; I have therefore given up the things that weighed me down and I am now living my life to the fullest because the tomorrow I had always hoped to live my dreams may never be mine.

Fun Facts

  1. The fear of having no cell-phone service, running out of battery, or losing sight of your phone is called Nomophobia, reportedly affecting 66% of people.
  2. A single Google search needs more computing power than it took to send Apollo 11 to the moon. The Apollo computer was less equipped than a modern toaster.
  3. Besides being some of the biggest names in the tech industry, HP, Apple, Google and Microsoft share another commonality. They all started in garages.
~Extracted from Codingforums.com

Health Tips

"So many of us take for granted the wonderful construction of the human body and the workings of its various parts. Some of us even expect it to function efficiently with less than the minimum care and attention. Learn the much you can about your body and how the care of it can help give you that greatest blessing of all - good health."

~From Your Body (A Ladybird Book)

Wonders of the Modern World

  1. The Simplon Tunnel
  2. The Sky-scrapers of New York
  3. The Boulder Dam of Colorado
  4. The Panama Canal
  5. The Golden Gate Bridge
  6. The Taj Mahal at Agra in India
  7. The North Sea Oil Drilling Rigs

Great Example for Politicians

"My life in politics was a joy. I loved campaigns and I loved governing. I always tried to keep things moving in the right direction, to give more people a chance to live their dreams, to lift people's spirits, and to bring them together. That's the way I kept score."

~Bill Clinton

Scientific Marvels

  1. Space travel
  2. Heart surgery
  3. Fibre-optics communication
  4. Concorde
  5. Radios
  6. Computers
  7. Anesthetics

My Supreme Desire

To borrow the words of Elbert Hubbard, my supreme desire is to radiate health, cheerfulness, calm courage and goodwill. I wish to live without fear, hate, guilt, worry and jealousy; to be honest, natural, confident, clean in mind and body - ready to say "I do not know" if it be so; to treat all men with kindness; and to meet any loss, failure, criticism and rejection unabashed and unafraid.



Greatest American Presidents

  1. Abraham Lincoln
  2. George Washington
  3. Thomas Jefferson
  4. Franklin Roosevelt
  5. Theodore Roosevelt
  6. Woodrow Wilson
  7. Andrew Jackson

Making Peace With the Past

"Dwell not on your past. Use it to illustrate a point, then leave it behind. Nothing really matters except what you do now in this instant of time. From this moment onwards you can be an entirely different person, filled with love and understanding, ready with an outstretched hand, uplifted and positive in every thought and deed."

~Eileen Caddy

Toughest Colleges to Get Into

  1. MIT
  2. Princeton
  3. Harvard
  4. Yale
  5. Stanford
  6. Brown
  7. Columbia

Why You Should Trust God

"Men and women who turn their lives over to God will find out that He can make a lot more out of their lives than they can. He will deepen their joys, expand their vision, quicken their minds, strengthen their muscles, lift their spirits, multiply their blessings, increase their opportunities and pour out peace."

~Ezra Taft Benson

The 7 Greatest Scientists

  1. Albert Einstein
  2. Isaac Newton
  3. Galileo Galilei
  4. Nikola Tesla
  5. Aristotle
  6. Archimedes
  7. Charles Darwin

You Matter

"Always be yourself. Never try to hide who you are. The only shame is to have shame. Always stand up for what you believe in. Always question what other people tell you. Never regret the past; it's a waste of time. There's a reason for everything. Every mistake, every moment of weakness, every terrible thing that has happened to you, grow from it. The only way you can ever get the respect of others is when you show them that you respect yourself and most importantly, do your thing and never apologize for being you."

~Unknown

The Most Industrialized Nations

  1. United States
  2. Japan
  3. Germany
  4. France
  5. United Kingdom
  6. Italy
  7. Canada

Keys to Success

"...in his effort to withstand temptation, to economize, to exercise thrift, to disregard the superficial for the real - the shadow for the substance; to be great yet small, in his effort to be patient in the laying of a firm foundation; to so grow in skill and knowledge that he shall place his services in demand by reason of his intrinsic and superior worth. This is the key that unlocks every door of opportunity, and all others fail."

~Booker T. Washington

The 7 Social Sins

  1. Politics without principle
  2. Wealth without work
  3. Pleasure without conscience
  4. Knowledge without character
  5. Commerce without morality
  6. Worship without sacrifice
  7. Science without humanity

Cherish What You Love

"Cherish your visions, cherish your ideals, cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts - for out of them will grow all heavenly environment, of these if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built."~James Allen

The World's Largest Cities

  1. London in England
  2. New York in the United States
  3. Tokyo in Japan
  4. Berlin in Germany
  5. Chicago in the United States
  6. Shanghai in China
  7. Paris in France

Benefits of Optimism

"In terms of success, optimistic people out perform their pessimistic colleagues. Research shows that they are consistently promoted higher and make more money while working fewer hours than those who think pessimistically. Optimists also contribute more significantly to social progress. It is the optimists who start and run successful companies, who win elections and carry out reforms, and who make breakthroughs in the realms of science and technology."

~Pepe Minambo

The World's Greatest Lakes

  1. Caspian Sea in the Commonwealth of Independent States, C.I.S. (formerly U.S.S.R)
  2. Lake Superior in North America
  3. Victoria Nyanza in Central Africa
  4. Aral Sea in C.I.S.
  5. Lake Huron in North America
  6. Lake Michigan in North America

Demonstrating His Love

"Take your communication for instance - the way you address others. It ought to be with loving, gracious and edifying words. Never talk people down. Never use words that hurt and demean people. Communicate excellently with others without destroying their self-image or making them feel sorry for themselves. Talk to people in a way that they never forget the excellence of your words, the love and grace of Christ that you communicated. It's how God wants us to love."

~Dr. Chris Oyakhilome

World's Longest Rivers

  1. Missouri-Mississipi (U.S.)
  2. Amazon (Brazil)
  3. Nile (Egypt)
  4. Yangtse (China)
  5. Lena (Russia)
  6. Zaire (Central Africa)
  7. Niger (West Africa)