Positive Quote for Today

"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty."— Maya Angelou


Developing Good Habits

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This is me holding James Clear's Atomic Habits which I will mention in the story below.

Much has been said about the power of habit. The ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle quipped that "good habits formed at youth make all the difference". And then someone else said that "we first make our habits, then our habits make us."

Such wisdom has inspired me to form such good habits as praying, reading, telling the truth, stretching with rollers, meditating on God's Word and going for one-hour walks. (Yes, even praying and telling the truth are habit forming.)

The wisdom has also inspired me to break bad habits like procrastination, overeating and constantly checking social media. But there is one bad habit I am yet to conquer: oversleeping!

I usually rise at around 6:40 a.m. which to me is oversleeping since my preferred waking-up time is 5:30 a.m. Try as might, I have for a long time been unable to rise consistently at 5:30 a.m.

Perhaps it is that desire to form a good habit of rising early everyday that compelled me to buy James Clear's Atomic Habits, a book about easy and proven methods of building good habits and breaking bad ones.

At first, Atomic Habits sounded like a great book as I read an introductory story about how James Clear was accidentally hit in the head with a bat while playing baseball during his high school years. That accident landed him in hospital where he underwent surgery. He recovered fully from the surgery and went on to excel in academics and baseball at the university thanks to the good habits he formed.

After reading that riveting story, the book got progressively boring as James explained the fundamentals of building good habits using facts drawn from scientific experiments and other sources. He laced his explanations with graphs and diagrams, not quite what I like.

All the same, I was able to glean a few valuable insights from the book. Chief among the insights is how tiny changes done over a long period of time end up making a big difference. This equation illustrates that insight:
1% better every day for one year 1.01365=37.78
Another insight I gleaned from the book is that habits do not restrict freedom; they create it. If, for instance, we do not have good health habits, we will always be short on energy. And if we do not have good financial habits, we will always be struggling for the next dollar.

James said in the book that the key to mastering a good habit is through repetition, not perfection. To build a habit, we need to practice it. That reminded me of an aphorism that says "repetition is the mother of skill".

He went on to say that a habit needs to be enjoyable for it to last. So he advised us to find a way to make our habits exciting. If, for example, we want to be avid readers, we should read what fascinates us. I couldn't agree with him more on that.

My beloved reader, I exhort you to also kick out bad habits and form good ones like rising early, reading avidly, eating moderately and exercising regularly. Man is, after all, a creature of habit. We become what we practice.

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Inspired by the Story of Job

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When I was matriculating at JKUAT in May 2007 to pursue a degree in electronic & computer engineering, Mum was proud of my achievement. She told her closest relatives about it and then requested them to buy me some of the things I would need at JKUAT. Thanks to her efforts, I got sheets and blankets from one uncle and a suitcase from another.

Dad was equally proud of my admission to JKUAT. Before I reported to the university, he kept pushing me to have everything ready. He had me apply for the loan that would cater for my living expenses at JKUAT and ensured I had the class materials that had been listed in my admission letter.

My parents must have been proud of my admission to JKUAT not only because I was to pursue one of the most prestigious degree courses in Kenya but also because it was an opportunity they didn't have themselves. (They both have no university degree.)

After I reported to JKUAT on that lovely day in May 2007, I went ahead to have a fantastic first year at the university. I rose effortlessly before dawn every weekday to prepare for classes during which I made interesting contributions.

In the evening, I would go to the library to do some private reading. I read a captivating booklet about Charles Lindbergh, the first aviator to fly solo across the Atlantic Ocean, during one of those times I whiled away my time in the library.

Then over the weekends, I commuted to Nairobi City to attend choir practices and church services at All Saints' Cathedral. I enjoyed being part of the cathedral's 9:30 a.m. English service choir. Imagine from the time I matriculated at JKUAT in May 2007 till around August 2008, I only missed church service at All Saints' Cathedral only once. I was such a highly motivated young man.

Probably due to my motivation and good looks, a few women at the university and at the cathedral showed an interest in me. One even bought me a cake to celebrate my graduation with a diploma in information technology that I had pursued before matriculating at JKUAT.

Anyone who knew me probably thought I was destined for great things but come August 2008 when I was in my second year, I took a cavalier attitude towards my engineering course. Then I started acting out of character by missing classes at JKUAT without communicating home.

When time for exams reached, I left most of my answers blank since I hadn't been studying the classwork for that first semester. And when we broke for a one week holiday, I didn't go home. I slept on the streets of Nairobi like a homeless vagabond.

Because of that wayward living, I had no fees to pay when we reconvened at the university for a second semester. That meant I couldn't book a room to board at one of JKUAT hostels. With no room to stay, I slept in such strange places as toilets and playing fields.

My weird behavior worried the people who knew me, more so my family. They started inquiring what I was up to. And when they finally caught up with me, they forcefully took me to hospital where I was diagnosed with a mental illness.

After I was discharged from JKUAT hospital in November 2008, during that time when everybody's attention was fixed on Barack Obama's presidential race in the U.S. elections, I came out a completely different person. I had grown plump which lowered my self-esteem. And I found it hard to get out of bed in the morning; on some days, I would stay in between the sheets till as late as 1:00 p.m.

A year later, my mental health went downhill when I began suffering from bouts of guilt. Sometimes I would feel so guilty that I would avoid meeting people. I would also have an uncomfortable feeling that people were talking about me. Perhaps due to my changed nature, the women who had shown an interest in me disappeared from my life like mist under a rising sun.

Over the past five years, I have strived to repossess the motivation I had before I went astray at JKUAT in August 2008. I can now proudly report that my efforts are bearing fruits given how I have lost weight and regained my youthful swagger. And for the past six months or so, I have been consistently getting out of bed before 6:50 a.m. Even though my ideal waking up time is 5:30 a.m., I can say rising before 6:50 a.m. consistently has been a remarkable improvement.

As I endeavor to be consistently motivated, I am drawing inspiration from the story of Job in the Bible. You see, Job was a very blessed man until disaster struck in his life. Everything that could go wrong did. He lost his business, his health and his family. But after that harrowing period that lasted for nine months, he came out with twice the blessings he had before. He had twice the livestock, twice the joy, twice the peace and twice the victory.

Like Job, I am now feeling that I am coming out better than I was before I went astray at JKUAT in August 2008: wiser and more peaceful. If I keep on that trajectory, and I am believing that with God's help I will, I foresee myself becoming a successful blogger, thus making my parents proud of me, now that I didn't finish my engineering degree at JKUAT.

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Bible Quote

"Always be full of joy in the Lord; I say it again, rejoice! Let everyone see that you are unselfish and considerate in all you do... Don't worry about anything; instead pray about everything; tell God your needs and don't forget to thank Him for His answers. If you do this, you will experience God's peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand."

~Phillipians 4:4-7 (TLB)

About the Author

Name: Thuita J. Maina
Nationality: Kenyan
Lives in: Kiserian, Rift Valley, Kenya
Mission: To inspire the world to godly living, one person at a time.

Just for Laughs

There was this drunkard named Azoge who loved drinking at Josiah's Bar. On being told a certain Hon. Nanga was flying to America to be conferred a law degree so that he could be admitted to the bar, Azoge replied, "Why fly all the way to America to be admitted to the bar while you can get into Josiah's Bar any time?"



The 7 Deadly Sins

  1. Pride
  2. Envy
  3. Gluttony
  4. Lust
  5. Anger
  6. Greed
  7. Sloth

Author's Note

I am learning to treat life as a journey, not a destination. So I am striving to enjoy each moment even as I anticipate to fulfill my dreams, especially meeting my soulmate and traveling abroad. Tomorrow may never be mine.

Fun Facts

  1. The fear of having no cell-phone service, running out of battery, or losing sight of your phone is called Nomophobia, reportedly affecting 66% of people.
  2. A single Google search needs more computing power than it took to send Apollo 11 to the moon. The Apollo computer was less equipped than a modern toaster.
  3. Besides being some of the biggest names in the tech industry, HP, Apple, Google and Microsoft share another commonality. They all started in garages.
~Extracted from Codingforums.com

Health Tip

So many of us take for granted the wonderful construction of the human body and the workings of its various parts. Some of us even expect it to function efficiently with less than the minimum care and attention. Learn the much you can about your body and how the care of it can help to give you that greatest blessing of all - good health.


Wonders of the Modern World

  1. The Simplon Tunnel
  2. The Sky-scrapers of New York
  3. The Boulder Dam of Colorado
  4. The Panama Canal
  5. The Golden Gate Bridge
  6. The Taj Mahal at Agra in India
  7. The North Sea Oil Drilling Rigs

Great Example for Politicians

"My life in politics was a joy. I loved campaigns and I loved governing. I always tried to keep things moving in the right direction, to give more people a chance to live their dreams, to lift people's spirits, and to bring them together. That's the way I kept score."

~Bill Clinton

Scientific Marvels

  1. Space travel
  2. Heart surgery
  3. Fibre-optics communication
  4. Concorde
  5. Radios
  6. Computers
  7. Anesthetics

My Supreme Desire

Although I'd like to be rich and famous, my supreme desire is to be radiant: to radiate health, cheerfulness, calm courage and goodwill. I wish to live without fear, hate, guilt, worry and jealousy. I wish to be honest, natural, confident, clean in mind and body - ready to say "I do not know" if it be so and to treat all men with kindness - to meet any loss, failure, criticism and rejection unabashed and unafraid.



Greatest American Presidents

  1. Abraham Lincoln
  2. George Washington
  3. Thomas Jefferson
  4. Franklin Roosevelt
  5. Theodore Roosevelt
  6. Woodrow Wilson
  7. Andrew Jackson

Making Peace With the Past

"Dwell not on your past. Use it to illustrate a point, then leave it behind. Nothing really matters except what you do now in this instant of time. From this moment onwards you can be an entirely different person, filled with love and understanding, ready with an outstretched hand, uplifted and positive in every thought and deed."

~Eileen Caddy

Toughest Colleges to Get Into

  1. MIT
  2. Princeton
  3. Harvard
  4. Yale
  5. Stanford
  6. Brown
  7. Columbia

Why You Should Trust God

"Men and women who turn their lives over to God will find out that He can make a lot more out of their lives than they can. He will deepen their joys, expand their vision, quicken their minds, strengthen their muscles, lift their spirits, multiply their blessings, increase their opportunities and pour out peace."

~Ezra Taft Benson

The 7 Greatest Scientists

  1. Albert Einstein
  2. Isaac Newton
  3. Galileo Galilei
  4. Nikola Tesla
  5. Aristotle
  6. Archimedes
  7. Charles Darwin

You Matter

"Always be yourself. Never try to hide who you are. The only shame is to have shame. Always stand up for what you believe in. Always question what other people tell you. Never regret the past; it's a waste of time. There's a reason for everything. Every mistake, every moment of weakness, every terrible thing that has happened to you, grow from it. The only way you can ever get the respect of others is when you show them that you respect yourself and most importantly, do your thing and never apologize for being you."

~Unknown

The Most Industrialized Nations

  1. United States
  2. Japan
  3. Germany
  4. France
  5. United Kingdom
  6. Italy
  7. Canada

Keys to Success

"...in his effort to withstand temptation, to economize, to exercise thrift, to disregard the superficial for the real - the shadow for the substance; to be great yet small, in his effort to be patient in the laying of a firm foundation; to so grow in skill and knowledge that he shall place his services in demand by reason of his intrinsic and superior worth. This is the key that unlocks every door of opportunity, and all others fail."

~Booker T. Washington

The 7 Social Sins

  1. Politics without principle
  2. Wealth without work
  3. Pleasure without conscience
  4. Knowledge without character
  5. Commerce without morality
  6. Worship without sacrifice
  7. Science without humanity

Cherish What You Love

"Cherish your visions, cherish your ideals, cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts - for out of them will grow all heavenly environment, of these if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built."~James Allen

The World's Largest Cities

  1. London in England
  2. New York in the United States
  3. Tokyo in Japan
  4. Berlin in Germany
  5. Chicago in the United States
  6. Shanghai in China
  7. Paris in France

Benefits of Optimism

"In terms of success, optimistic people out perform their pessimistic colleagues. Research shows that they are consistently promoted higher and make more money while working fewer hours than those who think pessimistically. Optimists also contribute more significantly to social progress. It is the optimists who start and run successful companies, who win elections and carry out reforms, and who make breakthroughs in the realms of science and technology."

~Pepe Minambo

The World's Greatest Lakes

  1. Caspian Sea in the Commonwealth of Independent States, C.I.S. (formerly U.S.S.R)
  2. Lake Superior in North America
  3. Victoria Nyanza in Central Africa
  4. Aral Sea in C.I.S.
  5. Lake Huron in North America
  6. Lake Michigan in North America

Demonstrating His Love

"Take your communication for instance - the way you address others. It ought to be with loving, gracious and edifying words. Never talk people down. Never use words that hurt and demean people. Communicate excellently with others without destroying their self-image or making them feel sorry for themselves. Talk to people in a way that they never forget the excellence of your words, the love and grace of Christ that you communicated. It's how God wants us to love."

~Dr. Chris Oyakhilome

World's Longest Rivers

  1. Missouri-Mississipi (U.S.)
  2. Amazon (Brazil)
  3. Nile (Egypt)
  4. Yangtse (China)
  5. Lena (Russia)
  6. Zaire (Central Africa)
  7. Niger (West Africa)