Positive Quote for Today

"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty."— Maya Angelou


Leadership Lessons

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This was the 2006 Starehe Boys' fire-fighting squad which conducted a gruelling physical fitness test on new members. (Photo courtesy of Fred Kithikii, the 2006 squad commander.)

During one supper we had in 2002 when I was in Form 1 at Starehe Boys' Centre, I heard that the school Survival Club would conduct interviews that night for first formers who wanted to join the club. I went for the interview which was conducted by commandos, as the club leaders were called, and magically passed it.

As a Survival Club member, I went for several hikes and camps. I didn't enjoy the hikes because they involved trekking through hilly countrysides. But the camps were another matter; I enjoyed the jaunty ditties we sang as we gambolled round campfires. We also teased commandos who wore stetson hats that made them look like American cowboys.

One tease stands out in my memory. We were gambolling round a campfire when one Survival Club member teased a commando I can't remember. Okay, let me call him Commando X. The club member teased him in Sheng, "You see the grandmother of Commando X - she grew thin and thinner and thinner and thinner and thinner until she disappeared!"

So much did I enjoy Survival camps that I wanted to be a commando when I got into Form 3. But I gave up that ambition, a wise decision because I wouldn't have withstood the gruelling physical fitness test conducted by the fire-fighting squad which Survival Club commandos were expected to join.

I left the Survival Club in Form 2 but after having learnt the following leadership lessons that I will apply in my future family, God willing:
  • Rise early
  • Be physically fit
  • Ensure everybody in the family has a meal before sitting down to eat
  • Create time for family fun during which everyone is free to tease each other
  • Keep disagreements with wife and bedroom affairs unnoticeable by children
And how did I learn those valuable lessons? Mostly from the camps and hikes we had during which I observed commandos project a spirit of unity and have us wake up at the crack of dawn to do physical exercises.

Later on in 2012, I became interested in memorizing the values and mission statements of Survival Club as they may have been outlined by the club founder in 1989. When I visited Starehe, I found that the Survival clubroom had been moved from the cottage we used in my time to a small room partitioned in an old classroom.

I informed Ken Ogutu, one of the Survival commandos in 2002, about the change but he didn't seem surprised. He just told me they used to refer to the Survival clubroom as the Bush Embassy, a name that amused me because it implies that if you wanted to go to the bush, you first had to get a visa from the Survival clubroom.

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The Brotherhood in Starehe

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With permission, I have extracted this picture-quote from the X page of Chosen People USA. All rights reserved worldwide.

When I joined Starehe Boys' Centre in January 2002, I didn't realize how fortunate I was to be part of the school whose senior students treated new students as brothers. Not until recent years after hearing how some of my friends were bullied in high school have I thanked God for taking me to Starehe which had a buddy system of pairing every new student with a second former who oriented him to the ways of the school.

My second former was an amiable lad named Leon Osumba who was hearing impaired, a disability that made him wear hearing aids. He went out of his way to introduce me to some schoolmates in our house which had about 80 students.

Our house captain was Michael Mwangale who received the first formers of that year amicably, including me. He regularly held meetings with us in the first half of Term 1. During those meetings, he discussed a number of issues with us, such as the spread of HIV/AIDS. I remember him telling us that it is unwise to ruin our lives with two minutes of sexual ecstasy.

On the night before we broke for my first half-term holiday as a Starehian, Mwangale organized a small bash for us first formers. We feasted on biscuits and drank plenty of tea during that bash. Those were the days!

Perhaps the student who gave me the best reception in Starehe was Jesse Nyoro who was six years my senior. Soon after he heard I could play the piano, he introduced me to music teachers and spoke highly of me to my fellow first formers. Later on, he encouraged me to accompany hymns on the piano during evening assemblies.

Nyoro treated me like a brother despite the fact that I was a confused new student while he was a famous senior in Starehe pursuing a technical course in the institute division of the school. He still remains my friend and has counselled me on several occasions in recent years.

The other day, for instance, he phoned me to inquire how I was faring. I informed him that I am still working hard and praying for breakthroughs, to which he replied, "What breakthroughs are you praying for, Thuita? Don't you know that your breakthroughs happened a long time ago? Do you know how many people wish they could own a website like you do and write as you do? Stop this business of saying you are praying for breakthroughs."

He then narrated to me the story of two disciples who walked with Jesus without realizing they were with Him until He gave them bread. His point was that God is already with me and I only need to open my spiritual eyes wider to sense His presence. (For whatever reasons, I can't remember reading that story of two disciples walking with Jesus without realizing it even though I have studied the whole Bible from Genesis to Revelation.)

After Nyoro finished recounting that biblical story, I clarified to him that by praying for breakthroughs, I meant earning money. And I wish I had added "like money from adverts on this blog" but he cut me short the moment I mentioned the word "money" and said, "Thuita, money only accounts for 10% of happiness. If you have food to eat, clothes to wear and good health - those alone are big breakthroughs."

That Nyoro has continued to show interest in how I am faring speaks volumes about the brotherhood which existed in Starehe during our time. Such is the kind of culture I would encourage in every family, institution, company and even in the whole world because, to borrow the words of Martin Luther King Jr., we will perish as fools if we don't learn to live together as brothers.

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Bible Quote

"Always be full of joy in the Lord; I say it again, rejoice! Let everyone see that you are unselfish and considerate in all you do... Don't worry about anything; instead pray about everything; tell God your needs and don't forget to thank Him for His answers. If you do this, you will experience God's peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand."

~Phillipians 4:4-7 (TLB)

About the Author

Name: Thuita J. Maina
Nationality: Kenyan
Lives in: Kiserian, Rift Valley, Kenya
Mission: To inspire the world to godly living, one person at a time.

Just for Laughs

There was this drunkard named Azoge who loved drinking at Josiah's Bar. On being told a certain Hon. Nanga was flying to America to be conferred a law degree so that he could be admitted to the bar, Azoge replied, "Why fly all the way to America to be admitted to the bar while you can get into Josiah's Bar any time?"



The 7 Deadly Sins

  1. Pride
  2. Envy
  3. Gluttony
  4. Lust
  5. Anger
  6. Greed
  7. Sloth

Author's Note

I am learning to treat life as a journey, not a destination. So I am striving to enjoy each moment even as I anticipate to fulfill my dreams, especially meeting my soulmate and traveling abroad. Tomorrow may never be mine.

Fun Facts

  1. The fear of having no cell-phone service, running out of battery, or losing sight of your phone is called Nomophobia, reportedly affecting 66% of people.
  2. A single Google search needs more computing power than it took to send Apollo 11 to the moon. The Apollo computer was less equipped than a modern toaster.
  3. Besides being some of the biggest names in the tech industry, HP, Apple, Google and Microsoft share another commonality. They all started in garages.
~Extracted from Codingforums.com

Health Tip

So many of us take for granted the wonderful construction of the human body and the workings of its various parts. Some of us even expect it to function efficiently with less than the minimum care and attention. Learn the much you can about your body and how the care of it can help to give you that greatest blessing of all - good health.


Wonders of the Modern World

  1. The Simplon Tunnel
  2. The Sky-scrapers of New York
  3. The Boulder Dam of Colorado
  4. The Panama Canal
  5. The Golden Gate Bridge
  6. The Taj Mahal at Agra in India
  7. The North Sea Oil Drilling Rigs

Great Example for Politicians

"My life in politics was a joy. I loved campaigns and I loved governing. I always tried to keep things moving in the right direction, to give more people a chance to live their dreams, to lift people's spirits, and to bring them together. That's the way I kept score."

~Bill Clinton

Scientific Marvels

  1. Space travel
  2. Heart surgery
  3. Fibre-optics communication
  4. Concorde
  5. Radios
  6. Computers
  7. Anesthetics

My Supreme Desire

Although I'd like to be rich and famous, my supreme desire is to be radiant: to radiate health, cheerfulness, calm courage and goodwill. I wish to live without fear, hate, guilt, worry and jealousy; to be honest, natural, confident, clean in mind and body - ready to say "I do not know" if it be so; to treat all men with kindness; and to meet any loss, failure, criticism and rejection unabashed and unafraid.



Greatest American Presidents

  1. Abraham Lincoln
  2. George Washington
  3. Thomas Jefferson
  4. Franklin Roosevelt
  5. Theodore Roosevelt
  6. Woodrow Wilson
  7. Andrew Jackson

Making Peace With the Past

"Dwell not on your past. Use it to illustrate a point, then leave it behind. Nothing really matters except what you do now in this instant of time. From this moment onwards you can be an entirely different person, filled with love and understanding, ready with an outstretched hand, uplifted and positive in every thought and deed."

~Eileen Caddy

Toughest Colleges to Get Into

  1. MIT
  2. Princeton
  3. Harvard
  4. Yale
  5. Stanford
  6. Brown
  7. Columbia

Why You Should Trust God

"Men and women who turn their lives over to God will find out that He can make a lot more out of their lives than they can. He will deepen their joys, expand their vision, quicken their minds, strengthen their muscles, lift their spirits, multiply their blessings, increase their opportunities and pour out peace."

~Ezra Taft Benson

The 7 Greatest Scientists

  1. Albert Einstein
  2. Isaac Newton
  3. Galileo Galilei
  4. Nikola Tesla
  5. Aristotle
  6. Archimedes
  7. Charles Darwin

You Matter

"Always be yourself. Never try to hide who you are. The only shame is to have shame. Always stand up for what you believe in. Always question what other people tell you. Never regret the past; it's a waste of time. There's a reason for everything. Every mistake, every moment of weakness, every terrible thing that has happened to you, grow from it. The only way you can ever get the respect of others is when you show them that you respect yourself and most importantly, do your thing and never apologize for being you."

~Unknown

The Most Industrialized Nations

  1. United States
  2. Japan
  3. Germany
  4. France
  5. United Kingdom
  6. Italy
  7. Canada

Keys to Success

"...in his effort to withstand temptation, to economize, to exercise thrift, to disregard the superficial for the real - the shadow for the substance; to be great yet small, in his effort to be patient in the laying of a firm foundation; to so grow in skill and knowledge that he shall place his services in demand by reason of his intrinsic and superior worth. This is the key that unlocks every door of opportunity, and all others fail."

~Booker T. Washington

The 7 Social Sins

  1. Politics without principle
  2. Wealth without work
  3. Pleasure without conscience
  4. Knowledge without character
  5. Commerce without morality
  6. Worship without sacrifice
  7. Science without humanity

Cherish What You Love

"Cherish your visions, cherish your ideals, cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts - for out of them will grow all heavenly environment, of these if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built."~James Allen

The World's Largest Cities

  1. London in England
  2. New York in the United States
  3. Tokyo in Japan
  4. Berlin in Germany
  5. Chicago in the United States
  6. Shanghai in China
  7. Paris in France

Benefits of Optimism

"In terms of success, optimistic people out perform their pessimistic colleagues. Research shows that they are consistently promoted higher and make more money while working fewer hours than those who think pessimistically. Optimists also contribute more significantly to social progress. It is the optimists who start and run successful companies, who win elections and carry out reforms, and who make breakthroughs in the realms of science and technology."

~Pepe Minambo

The World's Greatest Lakes

  1. Caspian Sea in the Commonwealth of Independent States, C.I.S. (formerly U.S.S.R)
  2. Lake Superior in North America
  3. Victoria Nyanza in Central Africa
  4. Aral Sea in C.I.S.
  5. Lake Huron in North America
  6. Lake Michigan in North America

Demonstrating His Love

"Take your communication for instance - the way you address others. It ought to be with loving, gracious and edifying words. Never talk people down. Never use words that hurt and demean people. Communicate excellently with others without destroying their self-image or making them feel sorry for themselves. Talk to people in a way that they never forget the excellence of your words, the love and grace of Christ that you communicated. It's how God wants us to love."

~Dr. Chris Oyakhilome

World's Longest Rivers

  1. Missouri-Mississipi (U.S.)
  2. Amazon (Brazil)
  3. Nile (Egypt)
  4. Yangtse (China)
  5. Lena (Russia)
  6. Zaire (Central Africa)
  7. Niger (West Africa)