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"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty."— Maya Angelou


The Sad Story of Kairu

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Because I believe stories have the power to teach us useful lessons in a way that makes the lessons leave a lasting impression on our minds, I am a sucker for riveting stories, be they real or fictional. The power of stories to impact us must be the reason why Jesus used parables to drive home the lessons He wanted His followers to learn.

Now, when I was in high school at Starehe Boys' Centre, we once read in class a story about a fictional character named Kairu. The story was in a textbook titled "Integrated English Book 2". Somehow, that story captivated me to an extent that it lingered in my mind for years.

One day in 2016, more than ten years after finishing high school, I went to the Kenya National Library in Nairobi, hoping to find "Integrated English Book 2" and reread the story about Kairu. To my delight, I found the book. And devouring the story I did.

As the story goes, Kairu stood at the door of the shop, a long baton in his hand. The uniform he wore, apparently too heavy for the hot weather, made him look shorter than he actually was. And his boots did not fit him; they were too large for his feet.

However, of all the things he wore, it was the helmet that looked most comical. It was one size bigger than his head, making it almost cover his eyes. As he stood in the blazing sun, peering at the world under the rim of the helmet, one got the impression that he was a comedian playing the part of a bored guard.

But Kairu wasn't dabbling in comedy; guarding Tamara Clothing Store was his work. The job was very boring, standing at the door of the shop all day long while watching customers come and go. Often his legs felt weak. At such times, he was tempted to throw the baton in his hand and sleep right there on the floor.

Earlier in his life, he had harbored big dreams of getting a better education than his father and improving the living standards of his family. After his high school education, he had stayed on their farm and admired the beautiful ridges that surrounded it.

But he realized he didn't belong there since those ridges had sapped his father of every bit of energy, leaving him frail and shaking. So he set off for Nairobi City, his mind heavy with thoughts. He trekked for miles on hot tarmac looking for a job. At last, he was accepted for training by Paka Guards.

The training turned out to be very hard and Kairu shuddered when he thought about it. He, together with his fellow recruits, had been beaten, starved and abused. Sometimes they were required to spend a whole night without sleep. And in the mock fights against robbers, the trainers had injured some of them.

All that was however nothing compared to Kivumbi Hill which stood on the training grounds and which was covered with murram. The recruits were forced to run up and down the hill at midday. Since the murram on the hill would be extremely hot, it would make the soles of their feet swollen. What was worse was climbing the hill on their knees. It was torture beyond words.

Kairu had withstood it all with the courage that comes from living in a world where so many things are threatening to break one's spirit. He knew all along that if he lost the opportunity to work for Paka Guards, there were many people waiting at the gate to replace him. And he would never be missed.

Although it was now over, Kairu could not shake off the terror of those two months spent in the training camp. It had left him weak and scared. He had always loved arguments but in the camp, he learnt to obey commands. It was in the camp too, where he realized how needs can force one to put up with what they don't like.

Here he stood at the door of Tamara Clothing Store under the scorching sun, summoning every effort to keep him on his feet. He did not like the job. The pay was low and the job insecure, for he could be confronted by robbers any time. He often wondered what he would do if such a moment ever came; he was not certain he would not run away. End of story.

Quite a riveting story, isn't it? When I reread it in 2017, it challenged me to break a bad habit I had formed of dozing during the day. It also challenged me to work hard in my blogging career while I am still under my father's care. I have just feared falling into the same predicament as Kairu. Such is the power of stories.

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Overcoming the Fear of Success

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When I devoured Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich in 2008, I learnt from the book the six main fears that keep people from succeeding in life. The six are fears of failure, of poverty, of criticism, of illness, of death and of loss of love. Feeling enlightened, I informed a friend of mine about the fears.

But it didn't occur to me that people also fear success till I read Susan Jeffers' Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway several years later. According to Susan Jeffers, people fear failure, they fear success; they fear dying, they fear living; they fear changing, they fear getting stuck.

Come to think of it, people do actually fear success. They can't stand being famous and talked about. All they want is a lot of money without having paid the price of success. Napoleon Hill should have included the fear of success in his list of the main fears that keep people from succeeding in life.

Let's face it: becoming a success requires a lot of hard work. And success brings with it new challenges and extra responsibilities. The lovely and talented Dolly Parton summed it best when she quipped, "The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain!"

For Bill Clinton, one of my heroes, success seemed to have come to him naturally. During his years as U.S. President, he always appeared comfortable in his own skin despite the challenges he faced. There was a time I used to drool over photos of him in "Time" and "Newsweek" magazines.

Given the way I have had a tendency to crucify myself for the foolish things I have done - a habit that often left me feeling guilty and insecure - I used to wonder whether I can handle the weight of success as gracefully as Bill Clinton did.

Can I stand getting featured in the media, being known by famous people, getting talked about by strangers and being invited by institutions to deliver speeches? And can I endure the hate and slander by the false friends and true enemies that come with success? I wondered.

Gladly, after much personal development, I am beginning to feel that I can handle the weight of success. That personal development program has made me know that success starts in the mind. Stephen R. Covey, author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, had it right when he wrote:
Private victories precede public victories. You can't invert that process any more than you can harvest a crop before you plant it.
Yes, success (public victory) starts in the mind (private victory). I will therefore continue growing in skill and knowledge while striving to think clearly, creatively and positively.

And Michelle Obama has given me hope that I can attain success just by being me. In her captivating memoir, Becoming, Michelle mentioned that we don't have to look a certain way in order to be successful. Her point was that we can make it in life irrespective of our looks and backgrounds.

Michelle was right because history is replete with stories of people who overcame overwhelming odds and became successful. There are those who were bred in poverty, yet became genuinely wealthy. And there are those who had disabilities, yet became masters of their craft.

Just as an example, Bill Clinton grew up without his father. And the man his mother married turned into an abusive husband. Despite those challenges, Bill Clinton became one of the youngest and most charismatic presidents that America has ever had.

Such stories of people who have succeeded against all odds make me believe that I can also be a success. And if I ever become successful (and I am believing I will), I hope to remain humble and upright. I would hate to brag about my success, even to those who have looked down on me.

By the way, Stephen R. Covey's The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People and Michelle Obama's Becoming have extraordinary depth and solidity. I recommend those two books to anyone who wants to change their life for the better and overcome the fear of success. Adieu!

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Bible Quote

"Always be full of joy in the Lord; I say it again, rejoice! Let everyone see that you are unselfish and considerate in all you do... Don't worry about anything; instead pray about everything; tell God your needs and don't forget to thank Him for His answers. If you do this, you will experience God's peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand."

~Phillipians 4:4-7 (TLB)

About the Author

Name: Thuita J. Maina
Nationality: Kenyan
Lives in: Kiserian, Rift Valley, Kenya
Mission: To inspire the world to godly living, one person at a time.

Just For Laughs

There was this drunkard named Azoge who loved drinking at Josiah's Bar. On being told a certain Hon. Nanga was flying to America to be conferred a law degree so that he could be admitted to the bar, Azoge replied, "Why fly all the way to America to be admitted to the bar while you can get into Josiah's Bar any time?"



The 7 Deadly Sins

  1. Pride
  2. Envy
  3. Gluttony
  4. Lust
  5. Anger
  6. Greed
  7. Sloth

Author's Note

I am learning to treat life as a journey, not a destination. So I am trying to enjoy each day as I anticipate to fulfill my dreams especially meeting my soulmate and traveling abroad. Tomorrow may never be mine.

Fun Facts

  1. The fear of having no cell-phone service, running out of battery, or losing sight of your phone is called Nomophobia, reportedly affecting 66% of people.
  2. A single Google search needs more computing power than it took to send Apollo 11 to the moon. The Apollo computer was less equipped than a modern toaster.
  3. Besides being some of the biggest names in the tech industry, HP, Apple, Google and Microsoft share another commonality. They all started in garages.
~Extracted from Codingforums.com

Health Tip

So many of us take for granted the wonderful construction of the human body and the workings of its various parts. Some of us even expect it to function efficiently with less than the minimum care and attention. Learn the much you can about your body and how the care of it can help to give you that greatest blessing of all - good health.


Wonders of the Modern World

  1. The Simplon Tunnel
  2. The Sky-scrapers of New York
  3. The Boulder Dam of Colorado
  4. The Panama Canal
  5. The Golden Gate Bridge
  6. The Taj Mahal at Agra in India
  7. The North Sea Oil Drilling Rigs

Great Example for Politicians

"My life in politics was a joy. I loved campaigns and I loved governing. I always tried to keep things moving in the right direction, to give more people a chance to live their dreams, to lift people's spirits, and to bring them together. That's the way I kept score."

~Bill Clinton

Scientific Marvels

  1. Space travel
  2. Heart surgery
  3. Fibre-optics communication
  4. Concorde
  5. Computers & Radios
  6. Anesthetics
  7. The atom bomb

My Supreme Desire

Although I'd like to be rich and famous, my supreme desire is to be radiant: to radiate health, cheerfulness, calm courage and goodwill. I wish to live without hate, guilt, worry, jealousy, cynicism and envy. I wish to be honest, natural, confident, clean in mind and body - ready to say "I do not know" if it be so and to treat all men with kindness - to meet any loss, failure, criticism and rejection unabashed and unafraid.



Greatest American Presidents

  1. Abraham Lincoln
  2. George Washington
  3. Thomas Jefferson
  4. Franklin Roosevelt
  5. Theodore Roosevelt
  6. Woodrow Wilson
  7. Andrew Jackson

Making Peace With the Past

"Dwell not on your past. Use it to illustrate a point, then leave it behind. Nothing really matters except what you do now in this instant of time. From this moment onwards you can be an entirely different person, filled with love and understanding, ready with an outstretched hand, uplifted and positive in every thought and deed."

~Eileen Caddy

Toughest Colleges to Get Into

  1. MIT
  2. Princeton
  3. Harvard
  4. Yale
  5. Stanford
  6. Brown
  7. Columbia

Why You Should Trust God

"Men and women who turn their lives over to God will find out that He can make a lot more out of their lives than they can. He will deepen their joys, expand their vision, quicken their minds, strengthen their muscles, lift their spirits, multiply their blessings, increase their opportunities and pour out peace."

~Ezra Taft Benson

The 7 Greatest Scientists

  1. Albert Einstein
  2. Isaac Newton
  3. Galileo Galilei
  4. Nikola Tesla
  5. Aristotle
  6. Archimedes
  7. Charles Darwin

You Matter

"Always be yourself. Never try to hide who you are. The only shame is to have shame. Always stand up for what you believe in. Always question what other people tell you. Never regret the past; it's a waste of time. There's a reason for everything. Every mistake, every moment of weakness, every terrible thing that has happened to you, grow from it. The only way you can ever get the respect of others is when you show them that you respect yourself and most importantly, do your thing and never apologize for being you."

~Unknown

The Most Industrialized Nations

  1. United States
  2. Japan
  3. Germany
  4. France
  5. United Kingdom
  6. Italy
  7. Canada

Keys to Success

"...in his effort to withstand temptation, to economize, to exercise thrift, to disregard the superficial for the real - the shadow for the substance; to be great yet small, in his effort to be patient in the laying of a firm foundation; to so grow in skill and knowledge that he shall place his services in demand by reason of his intrinsic and superior worth. This is the key that unlocks every door of opportunity, and all others fail."

~Booker T. Washington

The 7 Social Sins

  1. Politics without principle
  2. Wealth without work
  3. Pleasure without conscience
  4. Knowledge without character
  5. Commerce without morality
  6. Worship without sacrifice
  7. Science without humanity

Cherish What You Love

"Cherish your visions, cherish your ideals, cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts - for out of them will grow all heavenly environment, of these if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built."~James Allen

The World's Largest Cities

  1. London in England
  2. New York in the United States
  3. Tokyo in Japan
  4. Berlin in Germany
  5. Chicago in the United States
  6. Shanghai in China
  7. Paris in France

Benefits of Optimism

"In terms of success, optimistic people out perform their pessimistic colleagues. Research shows that they are consistently promoted higher and make more money while working fewer hours than those who think pessimistically. Optimists also contribute more significantly to social progress. It is the optimists who start and run successful companies, who win elections and carry out reforms, and who make breakthroughs in the realms of science and technology."

~Pepe Minambo

The World's Greatest Lakes

  1. Caspian Sea in the Commonwealth of Independent States, C.I.S. (formerly U.S.S.R)
  2. Lake Superior in North America
  3. Victoria Nyanza in Central Africa
  4. Aral Sea in C.I.S.
  5. Lake Huron in North America
  6. Lake Michigan in North America

Demonstrating His Love

"Take your communication for instance - the way you address others. It ought to be with loving, gracious and edifying words. Never talk people down. Never use words that hurt and demean people. Communicate excellently with others without destroying their self-image or making them feel sorry for themselves. Talk to people in a way that they never forget the excellence of your words, the love and grace of Christ that you communicated. It's how God wants us to love."

~Dr. Chris Oyakhilome

World's Longest Rivers

  1. Missouri-Mississipi (U.S.)
  2. Amazon (Brazil)
  3. Nile (Egypt)
  4. Yangtse (China)
  5. Lena (Russia)
  6. Zaire (Central Africa)
  7. Niger (West Africa)